What's Done is Done. Now What?
“Listen to all that you can – then, if you forget the deficiencies and speak about the rest cautiously, you avoid trouble. See all that you can – then, if you forget the perilous and act upon the rest cautiously, you’ll avoid regret. In speech avoid trouble, in action avoid regret – then rewards will come of themselves.”
--Sitting, standing or lying around in regret is a waste of your precious time, mind and life force. What is done is done, now what are you going to do? There are myriad ways you can improve your circumstances, however it first begins in the Mind.
Whether you refer to Mind as God, The All, Quantum, Reiki, Chi, Ki, Ori, Brahma or Holy Spirit matters not. You can eat with a fork, spoon or your fingers as long as you get the nutrients. Just know this: no culture has a patent on spiritual truths. Study and travel so that you can gather knowledge on who you want to be. Faith without works is dead.
Staying the Same is the Easy Way Out. It's the Lazy Way.
"Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise! yet it stores its provisions in summer and gathers its food at harvest. How long will you lie there, you sluggard? When will you get up from your sleep?"
-- Proverbs 6:6
Do you feel laziness, along with being lackadaisical and slothful are keeping you from accomplishing things? You are spending time with and talking to the wrong folk! Hang around go-getters or spend some time meditating in the Quantum. Improve your eating habits and visit a variety of medical practitioners, both traditional and holistic. You are an energy being and what you need to do is change your Divine Mind, which is the only mind you have.
What you do with your body is of utmost importance because it is your transport in this bio-botic world and you are a biobot. You are chemicals, elements, and sentience reduced to light and waves -- you are highly programmable and you should think about that when reading, watching TV and spending time with other biobots.